Forgiveness - a definition
I heard on the radio today, a snatch of an interview, with a couple whose daughter had been murdered. They could of course never condone the actions of the person who killed their daughter, but it sounded like they had learned a way to live with it.
They spoke about the concept of forgiveness and offered this definition:
Forgiveness is the act of letting go of someone and letting them get on with their life
The words stayed with me as I got out of the car to do my various tasks, buy bread, something for dinner, go about my day.
I couldn't imagine what they gone through or how they had managed to distill that concept down into something so simple and profound.
I carried it with me throughout the day.
I like the shape that it made and the possibilities it created.